Essays 2-03: Mrs. Doubtfire ~Bond between family, Relationships and Love~

I watched the movie what was the "Miss Doubtfire" that is kind of a love comedy movie, but not only about love, but also emotion of people. It had a lot of important theme. It's one of my favorite movies. Actually I've already seen it before, like when I was a high school student, so I almost knew about the story, but I felt different at the movie this time from then. So I'm going to tell you about 3 themes that are bond between family, relationships and love through this story.

At the beginning, there is Diniel, who is the main character, Miranda, who is his wife, they have three children who are Ridia(eldest daughter), Chris(oldest son), and Natalie in the movie. They love their children a lot. There was a close bond of affection between Diniel and Mirand, but she wanted to break off her ties with him. However, there were still the ties that bind parent and child together until they divorced.

There is my father, mother, older sister and brother in my family same as Daniel's. I love my family a lot, but sometimes I fight with them because of little things. I always think after our argument, like why did I say something to my sisters, or parents? Why am I so mean? Some thing like that, so I regret a lot. Because I'm excited too much when we argument each other. So I always frustrated after that. Even if we sometimes argument or so, they make me happy all the time. When I'm wrong, something mistakes, they say something for me, like good advices. Especially my mother, if I do some bad things, she will get mad at me. She is always very kind, smiling, so I'm very scared when she gets mad. But also when I got good things, they are always cheering for me, like they blessed a lot same as me. Of course we are human, so sometimes will have some problems, but that is fine. So I have to keep relationships with them, so I will love them more as I told. We have to think about what the real love is.

In this movie, "We love each other! Don't we?" Daniel told Miranda, but she answered "No, its over." This part was so sad for me. In Japan, they say what "I love you" each other often, even young people when they are dating. I used to think that its good, because its kind of good way to expression each emotion, but its really true? I don't think so. I changed my mind these months, so I think different that is like and love. So love is very, very important, I guess. So I cannot use it easy. I don't know other people, but I want you to think about "Love" more seriously.

In my opinion, I used to think about divorce that is bad, but now, I changed my mind so is not too good, but not bad sometimes. Of course people fall in love between women and man, then have some relationships, after that they will get marry. It just looks like very happy, then love each other a lot, but in fact, I'm not sure that is true or not. Nowadays, younger girls become pregnant many times, so I feel like very very, and very worried, so we have to think about that seriously. I am 20 years old, but we are still young, especially teenager. So just like/love each other is fine, but I think that too early to get pregnancy by teenager, because they have an abortion the same as pregnancy. That's too bad, also so sad. So they are not happy, aren't they? In our life, so many couple divorce. I think after graduated, or got a certain job, then save a kind of a lot of money, after that we will get marry with lover is better. I will get marry with someone in the future, I guess. However, I want to think about seriously, because I don't want to divorce for us, my children.

There is a lot of family in all over the world. We don't know which family is the best or worst, but we have to find happiness at least own. Of course we have different feeling. So we are all different. I don't know what you feel, like about your happiness. For example, if your parents are not so close, also dislike your father, and you want your parents to divorce. If they divorce, you will be happy. However some people don't think what you think so. The people will tell you that even if you want to do it, you shouldn't think something like that. So, we can find our happiness whatever we want, also we will be able to decide to it by ourselves.

As a conclusion, we have to do something forever during our life, who never know that we will happen in the future, even if near future. So we have to keep many relationships with family, of course other people too, like friends or so. Also there are lots of movies in our life. So when we have time we should watch these movies! I am sure that it will show/tell us a lot of important things! It must be!

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